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SpeedDemon
163 posts |
#82205 2008-05-13 14:07 GMT |
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My boyfriend and I have been together for approx. 8 years now. It has been an on again and off again relationship, but have been steady for at least 3 years now. Our relationship was really active in the beginning, but over the last year or so, I am lucky to have sex with him once a month. What do you guys believe could be the cause of this. Is it possible that a 28 year old man has just lost his sex drive?
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LostMarbles
148 posts |
#82206 2008-05-13 14:11 GMT |
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Yes, but they probably don't lose it until they are like 60 yrs. old.
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GodThingie
154 posts |
#82207 2008-05-13 14:12 GMT |
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Sorry to say this hun, but I only speak from experience. If they aren't sleeping with you then they are sleeping with someone else....
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Clockwork
165 posts |
#82208 2008-05-13 14:12 GMT |
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Men do lose their sex drive. Why do you think there is such a demand for Viagra and other male enhancements? It can happen at different times. 28 seems a bit young. He might check with a doctor to be certain there are no other physical problems.
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JetSki
164 posts |
#82209 2008-05-13 14:14 GMT |
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i dont mean to say this to upset you but my personal experience has been that i lost interest after 4-5 yrs with the same girl, it just gets old doing it with the same girl, you need new stimulation, try to do something creative to turn him on, experiment & find out what that might be.
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BigBoy
162 posts |
#82210 2008-05-13 14:15 GMT |
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it is possible as many things affect our sex drives. it may be something totally unrelated to your relationship. stress at work, financial concerns, and even medical issues can affect sex drives. there is always a period in a relationship that is a down cycle, you may just be in that. you may want to find a way to spark things up a bit in the bedroom, just to see where that may lead.
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HighMaintenance
143 posts |
#82211 2008-05-13 14:16 GMT |
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the thing about relationships ;is lust will last for about 12 months .like you are having it 7 to 10 times a week .then it slowly go.s down hill after that .it is kinda strange 'that a guy so young. like yours seems to be going off sex .you need to talk to him .he may be worried about something .
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Ladybug
170 posts |
#82212 2008-05-13 14:18 GMT |
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well i guess he could but most don't lose it till about 60 then it just slows to about once a week. later on maybe once a month. maybe he hasn't lost it just using it some place else. like in any relationship keeping the fire going takes some work and doing different things. maybe he is tired of the rut or is on drugs or is starting to like his guy friends better. well like i said it takes both working at it to keep things going and it takes open commutation about things too. so if you want email and i can try and give you some ideas to try if you want.
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suzi4love
227 posts |
#84928 2008-06-28 05:36 GMT |
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