Getting the Woman of Your Dreams / Chapter 2: A Lack Of Confidence Got You Down? (1)

Chapter 2: A Lack Of Confidence Got You Down? (1)

For 80 percent of men, the largest problem they face in meeting women is not the way that they look, the money that they have or the lack of a cheesy pick up line. It is a lack of confidence. Confidence gives you the ability to make that first move. It also exudes from you which mean that a woman is attracted to it.

Confidence alone is one of the most desirable methods for attracting women. A confident man is likely to meet many more women. Are you confident, then?

A confident man is realized in the way that he interacts with people, in the way that he presents himself as well as in his ability to portray himself as a masculine but genuine man.

How can you be a confident man? There are several key things that you should attempt to learn and fold into the process.

· Determine what your fear is.
· Fear is a powerful emotion that’s limiting you.
· Overcome your fear by forcing yourself to do whatever it is.
· By overcoming your fear, you actually gain confidence that is irreplaceable.

To take this simply designed plan into account, you will gain confidence through conquering a fear. It does not have to be the fear of talking to a woman, either. Start out by determining a fear that is easier for you to conquer.

No matter what fear you tackle, the goal is simple. Give yourself a foundation of confidence, even a weak one at first. By conquering some fear that you have, you can build upon this small amount of confidence and later tackle a larger fear.

Once you have overcome some small fear, next, test the waters by conquering your fear of talking to women. The first time you head out to do this, give yourself some rehearsal. Plan what you will say, even rehearse the lines beforehand if it offers a bit of help to you.

Next, approach a girl, but pick one that you are more comfortable with rather than the one girl that you really want to talk to. Approach her and simple say, “Hi, I’m Adam. How are you?” This simple approach will give you a huge boost in the confidence department. Even if she doesn’t talk to you, you got the words out. Try to work up to a level where you are really talking to someone and the conversation is going well.

Once you get the conversation to a good, positive point, excuse yourself. Leave on a high note. If you aren’t attracted to her, there’s no need to worry about asking for a phone number.

Since you left on a high note, you are now more prepared than ever to talk with the girl that you’ve been too worried to talk to. You have more confidence and feel better about it simply because you have overcome this fear. You forced yourself to talk to a girl and now you feel amazingly confident and can make your next move.

You may be thinking to yourself, “I just can’t do it.” The fact is that most men go through this. They feel like they can’t take that first step. Yet, you have to make a decision here. Do you want to spend the rest of your life alone or will you get over your fear and simply walk up and start talking to her?

If you do it, if you say, “Forget this, I’m doing it” you’ll overcome your fear, gain confidence and all of the anxiety that goes with the fear will be gone, just like that.

When you push yourself to that moment when you are very close to turning around and saying forget it, you gain benefits ultimately. You gain the benefit of confidence.

Once you get through your first fear conquering step, take a step back and ask yourself a few questions. For example, do you feel that you were successful in talking to her? What could you have done differently? Perhaps you did all that you need to and now you feel good about the whole situation?

Step back, analyze and make changes as necessary. Then, approach another girl and start the process over. Don’t wait too long between talking to one girl and talking to the next, as this lowers your confidence level again. Just like after a big game that’s one, the team is better prepared to win the following game when momentum is high. Take advantage of this.

Do You Have Enough Confidence?
Remember that we revealed that men not only need confidence for themselves, but also because they need to attract women to them with confidence. A woman is attracted to a man that is confident. You have to ask yourself if you feel that you are confident enough to exude it and therefore attract women.

One way to know how confident you are is by listening to what the women you meet say about you. A confident man is someone that is alluring, but with a cunning charm. For example, a man that has a woman guessing what he will do next is one that is attracting her. Has a woman ever said to you that they “aren’t sure what you will do next?” This is a great sign that you are confident in your actions.

How else can you be confident with women? Here are a few more tips to keep in mind:

· Confidence is defined by the way that you interact with women. Do you approach them directly, without coming from behind or approaching them shyly?

· Do you speak them in strong, positive words in a clear voice? Does your voice shake when you speak? Do you feel confident when you are speaking to them?

· Do you make eye contact while you are speaking to her? Looking at your glass or looking at everything around you is not only a distraction to you, but it shows her that you aren’t interested in her. Eye contact is very attractive and often appealing to a woman.

In later sections, we will reveal ways that you can learn to say and do the right things in an effort to actually exude confidence.

Strategies For Confidence
Being confident allows you to have the courage to talk to women. Being confident attracts women to you. Therefore, you must incorporate this into your skill and your approach if you are to improve.

To help you, we have broken down several key aspects that you can do today to improve your level of confidence and therefore get the girl.

Practice Your Skill

Although it is hard to get your foot in the door and get started with asking girls out and even just talking to them, it’s the best way for you to actually improve your skill. Practice makes perfect which also means that the first few times that you talk to a girl, you are likely to fall flat on your face. That’s a learning experience and each time will get easier.

You should talk to several women, not the same one over and over again. If you wanted to learn how to ski, you would have to get out there on the slopes several times. The same methodology is effective here. Practice!

Realize You Are Worth It

Far too many men don’t realize that they are a good choice for a woman. Give yourself credit, you are worth dating! If you are someone that’s too hard on them, you’re letting yourself down in the end. Instead, what you need is to be positive and motivated.

If you aren’t sure what makes you a good mate, its time to define that. List all of your good points. Keep in mind how important it is for you to realize that women should be flocking to you. In fact, once you learn why you are so valuable to women, they will be even more attracted to you because of this increased confidence. A man that is confident in what they can offer to a woman is one that will attract them.

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Getting the Woman of Your Dreams
- First Things First - Part 2
- First Things First - Part 1
- Chapter 4: Getting From Flirting To Asking Her Out
- Chapter 2: A Lack Of Confidence Got You Down? (2)
- Attracting Women - Getting Started
- Women 101
- Tips for Success When Meeting Women - part 3
- Tips for Success When Meeting Women - part 4
- Conclusion
- Chapter 5: Get A Woman Online
- Chapter 3: The Ability To Flirt (2)
- Tips for Success When Meeting Women - part 2
- Tips for Success When Meeting Women - part 1
- Body Language:How to Tell If She’s Interested
- Are You Your Own Best Friend or Enemy?

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