Getting the Woman of Your Dreams / The First Date - Part 1

The First Date - Part 1

Where to Go (and Where Not to Go) on a Date
Where you decide to take her on your first date will impact the overall date experience. If you choose something that she’s interested in and where you can spend time getting to know one another, the date has a good chance of going well. On the other hand, if you pick a place that’s too crowded, loud, or involves something that she simply doesn’t enjoy, your chances of success diminish. Give yourself the best possible shot for getting to know your date by choosing a location carefully.
Good first date ideas include:
A museum: Find one that both you and she will enjoy. There are enough diversions and things to talk about if a lull in the conversation happens, and its light enough that if things don’t go well you can easily part as friends.
A theme or amusement park: You can both just have fun with the many things to do at the park, and you will feel a lot less pressure to have to create fun on the first date.
Go out for lunch or coffee: Perfectly simple, just meet her out for lunch or coffee. It’s casual, and relatively stress-free. If things go well you can keep the date going for the rest of the afternoon, and if not, you can just end the date.
Go bowling. First make sure she likes to bowl, and then go play a few strings. It’s a good way to be playfully competitive and flirtatious.
Walk the beach. If you live near a beach or lake, take her for a walk on the beach.
There are several places where you don’t want to go for your first date. Avoid these places because they will not help your date go smoothly.
The dive bar. Don’t take her to the scummy bar where they rent rooms in the back. It’s dirty, and makes you look like you don’t have class.
The movie theater. The movies are dark, and everyone is quiet and watching a movie. Not a good choice for a first date because you can’t get to know each other, which is really the point for first dates.
Your Mom & Dad’s house. Seeking your parent’s approval on a first date will make you look like you aren’t independent and that you might be a Momma’s boy. Women will get freaked out by meeting your parents on the first date.

Say What? What to Talk About on Your First Date
There are two types of communication that we will be talking about here: verbal and unspoken body language. Both are powerful means of communicating true internal feelings. By learning about body language you will learn what she is really thinking and feeling, and you will be able to see what message you are portraying through your body language.
In any spoken conversation, body language “speaks” first. If you feel confident and relaxed, you lean in, smile, and conduct yourself in a more animated manner. If you are anxious, you will be sitting back with you arms crossed against your chest, your legs crossed with no smile, your eyes looking around the room and not at your date.
When it comes to verbal communication, create interesting conversations to be successful with getting repeat dates. How do you create the framework for a conversation that you will both find enjoyable? Conversation is simply made up of a series of answering and asking questions. The questions you ask will determine if your date is having fun or is looking for a way out of the date. Here are some samples of questions that will most likely give you good conversation:
1.What do you do for fun?
2.What do you enjoy about these fun activities?
3.Where is your dream vacation, and what would you do there?
The point of these questions is for your date to remember a fun time in the past and share those experiences with you.

Go Dutch or Traditional: Who Pays?
This is a touchy subject, and you really need to look at it on a case by case basis. Many years ago, men paid for everything on a date. Nowadays, women work and make salaries that are equal to that of a man. Things have changed a lot regarding who pays for the date.
If a man asks a woman out on a date, especially the first date, he should expect to pay for it.
Who gets the check is sometimes viewed as who has the power in the relationship, so it may be a good idea to spread it out, especially if she makes similar money to you.
Some self-supporting, powerful women resent the idea of not paying or at least sharing the bill. If a man always pays she might start to wonder what the motives are; does he want to be in charge, is he embarrassed to have a woman pay, or is it simply because he is enamored with the lady and wants to pay? Even the most successful women will have trouble determining this. Some women don’t really care, and for others, it is very important to the success of the relationship.
If you are asked out by the woman, then she probably intends to pay for the date, but you should at least plan to pay for your half. If she pays for the entire date, it is a sign of good manners that you reciprocate if you are interested in pursuing the woman.
Once you have been dating for a while, you will find a system of paying for dates that works best for you. Feel free to ask her if the way you have it worked out is good for her. If your salaries are similar, you will probably find that splitting the check or reciprocating turns is the way to go.
Once you are comfortable enough to discuss financial matters, and have been dating for a while, you might consider going on vacation together. You should talk about, in advance, who will pay for what. Again, if your financial situations are similar, you may want to share the burden of the vacation expenses equally.
The overall principle here is to be courteous and considerate when it comes to paying for things. You should always attempt to pay for your portion of the date, or all if it if you can. If you don’t pay, she might think of you as a cheap. But if you start the relationship by paying for everything, she might think you want to pay all the time, for everything. Over time the two of you should be able to work out a pattern that is fair and that you both agree is working.

Also In This Category:

Getting the Woman of Your Dreams
- Introduction - How To Get a Women
- Tips for Success When Meeting Women - part 2
- Chapter 3: The Ability To Flirt (2)
- First Things First - Part 1
- Finding Your Perfect Woman - Introduction
- Chapter 2: A Lack Of Confidence Got You Down? (2)
- Positive Reconstruction of Negative Self-Talk
- Tips for Success When Meeting Women - part 1
- Introduction
- Tips for Success When Meeting Women - part 4
- Women 101
- Attracting Women - Getting Started
- The First Date - Part 2
- Conclusion
- Body Language:How to Tell If She’s Interested

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