Getting the Woman of Your Dreams / The Secrets to Your Dating Success - Part 2

The Secrets to Your Dating Success - Part 2

Clarify What You Are Looking For
Try not to focus on purely physical attributes when defining what you want in a woman. This superficial requirement won’t matter much when you start being more involved in a relationship.
Make sure you are trying to date women that you have something in common with. It is important to have a physical chemistry too, but the mental stimulation will keep you together in the long term. Know what you like in a person’s personality, ambitions, and interests.
Once you find someone that has a personality that meshes with your own, you will find that she instantly becomes attractive to you and vise versa. By approaching dating in this matter, you will avoid wasting your time on beautiful women that you find out are not your type.

Look on the Inside Too
The old adage “Don’t judge a book by its cover” may be cliché, but it is on point. Try your best not to judge a woman on her looks alone. Women will appreciate this, both the beautiful ones and the not-so-beautiful ones. A woman will see right through your shallowness, and will not want to be with someone that bases so much importance on looks. Beauty fades, but a personality is forever.

Have a Good Attitude
Having a good attitude is essential to you happiness and your ability to maintain a healthy relationship with a woman. Your success in work, love and health hinges on your ability to maintain a positive attitude when faced with adversity. A positive attitude is more likely to attract women to you. When you radiate positive feelings through your good attitude, you are saying that you want to receive these same positive feelings. Women will pick up on that and you will find women with a similar approach to you are drawn to you. Women also see a positive attitude as a sign that a man is not needy and doesn’t demand draining emotional support. Communication is clearer and smoother when both parties have good attitudes.
How do you improve your attitude? First you need to identify what is causing you to be negative. Is it work? Are you upset that you don’t have a lady in your life? Focus on the positive things in your life and build upon those things to realize all of the good things you have going for you. Thinking like this will create your positive attitude.

Treat Your Woman Right
Women want to feel like they are special to you. There are a few key mistakes men make that cause women to feel badly about their relationship with you. Avoid these mistakes and you will be on your way to making your lady feel special:
1.Don’t look at other women when you are out with your woman.
2.Don’t spend too much time with other women in your lady’s presence.
3.Don’t flirt with another woman around your lady.

A few ways to make your lady feel special are:
1.Always introduce her without being reminded.
2.Give her your undivided attention.
3.Look at her when she’s talking to you.
4.Give her a kiss; hold her hand, whisper in her ear.
A woman will feel special when you can be sensitive without losing your masculinity.
What exactly is sensitivity? It’s being responsive to the things and people around you. It’s being more concerned with the welfare of others over yourself.
Showing feelings is a sign of sensitivity. Tread lightly when showing your sensitivity because you don’t want to overdo it and be oversensitive. Once you find the balance you will be the sensitive man she’s looking for.
Make your woman feel special by creating a romantic moment. She will be impressed with your effort, and the gesture alone will be romantic. Pull out the candles, the soft music and a cozy location. When you set up a perfect place and show her your undivided attention, she will be wooed with you romantic planning.
By making your woman feel special, she will reciprocate and you will feel like her one and only. When you both feel appreciated and wanted, you will be happy together.

Troubleshooting Dating Problems
Use the following troubleshooting tips to help you if you’ve been dating and are experiencing problems. If your relationships are not lasting very long or you are having trouble getting less repeat dates, review these points. It’s time to be honest with yourself. There must be some behavior you are doing that is turning women off. Be sure you aren’t doing any of these things:
Don’t be cheap. You don’t have to give her expensive things, but chivalry is still admired.
Don’t over exaggerate yourself, or brag. If you are constantly telling stories that start with “I”, tone it down. She might not mind it in the beginning, but after a date or two, it gets irritating.
Don’t be too pushy. If you bulldoze your way through every hurdle in your way, she might be scared of you and get out of the situation.
Don’t be insecure or clingy. Women will run for the door if you are clingy, overbearing and insecure. In the early stages of dating, women don’t want to have to take care of you.
Don’t have a bad temper. A woman doesn’t want to be with a man that can’t constructively handle his anger. Women see this as a warning sign and they will get out.
Don’t be indecisive or indifferent. You have to be able to make a decision. It’s not fun to always have to make the decisions. A man that can be a leader, make a decision and stick with it is attractive. Not being able to pick an ice cream flavor or where to go for dinner is annoying.
Don’t demonstrate defensive behavior.
Don’t try too much. If you look eager, you will look desperate.
Don’t focus on sex. If that is your main agenda in dating, a woman will realize it fairly quickly and remove herself from the situation.

Conclusion
Just like in a business transaction, when you are dating you are promoting a product. In this situation, the product is you.
It’s important that you promote yourself the best way possible. Make sure that you look your best, and are continually working on yourself to give the woman of your dreams the best you possible - once you find her. The first impression is very important, and you never know when you will meet someone. It’s important to live your life in a way that you would want to give for your first impression.
As demonstrated in this book, there are plenty of pitfalls that can sabotage your dating efforts. Keep your attitude positive, avoid a poor image of yourself and low self-esteem, and maintain mature behavior to give yourself the best chances for dating success.
Keep your confidence high so that you can draw women to you. Women love a man that is confident in his actions and his life.
Watch what other do, men who are successful in getting dates and maintaining relationships, and improve upon what they do. If you do things better than they do, you will be ahead of the pack. Women will find out that you are extraordinary, and you will finally meet the type of women that you deserve, that will treat you well, and that you can enjoy spending time with.
The most valuable advice is to enjoy your time getting to meet women and enjoy the companionship you share together. Dating is exciting and sometimes stressful, but it is a fun time in life when you can meet many people. With these tips, you will find that meeting your special lady is closer than you think! Good luck and happy dating!

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The publisher and author of this book have made every effort to verify the information presented in this publication, however, they assume no responsibility for omissions, errors or incorrect interpretations of the information.

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