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    Tips for Success When Meeting Women - part 2

    Positive Affirmations: What They Are & What They Aren’t
    The key to success with positive affirmations to boost your self-confidence is being realistic about how they are used.
    What affirmations are:
    A tool used to convince yourself that you are worthy. It’s used to change how you feel about a situation.
    A self-improvement technique that you do in private, but that will impact every area of your life. It’s important to do it in a quiet place where you can concentrate on what you are really saying.
    An indirect way to affect other people by your actions; once you begin to believe your affirmations, they way you act will change, and the way others treat you will change.
    What affirmations are not:
    The same as self-questioning or initial thoughts that pop into your head with considering approach a woman. Those give you the immediate, “in the moment” jolt of confidence as you are about to approach a woman.
    Something you can use as a bandage in the moment. Positive affirmation work when applied over the long term.
    A direct way to control other people’s thoughts about you
    You should create your own affirmations that are specific to your situation. However, here is a table of sample affirmations that will give you an idea of what yours should sound like. Many of these are generic enough that you could use them.
    40 Sample Positive Affirmations
    I am in control and self-confident.
    I am my own best friend, and like myself for who I am.
    I am in control and pick my own destiny.
    I am content and successful.
    I am one-of-a-kind, and I pride myself on being unique.
    Being persistent will help me be successful.
    I will meet my goals.
    I’m always improving in every part of life.
    I’m fit and strong.
    I welcome change and I am flexible.
    Being confident will help me get what I want.
    I am worthy of success no matter what anyone else says.
    No matter what my body image, I am worthy.
    I have the ability to act appropriately in every situation.
    I believe in myself.
    I can handle anything.
    I am safe and shielded from harm.
    I believe that I always do the right thing.
    I have nothing to prove to anyone else.
    People respect me and appreciate what I do.
    I am loved.
    I am attractive and passionate.
    Anything is possible in my life.
    Women find me charming and fun.
    I have everything that I need.
    People think I’m composed and relaxed.
    I start interesting conversations easily.
    I genuinely like who I am, and feel great about myself.
    I am courageous and view myself as the best me I can be.
    I look at the bright side. Every day is a new day.
    People think I am ambitious.
    I am disciplined, and have the willpower to do anything.
    I’m as smart as anyone else.
    Women are looking for a guy like me.
    I’m fun and have a lot to offer.
    I create my own world under my own power and ability.
    I can and will do this.
    I have a high level of confidence.
    People think of me as outgoing and friendly.
    I am attractive and feel great.

    You can use any of these affirmations in any aspect of your life. You will notice that a lot of the affirmations listed above are not specific to dating and women. That is because they are designed to help with your overall self-esteem, and the attention from women will naturally follow!

    What You Say & How You Say It
    The way in which you talk to women, both what you say and how you say it with your body language, greatly impacts the likelihood of successful dating. Have you ever tried to talk to a woman, and spent so much time trying to get her to pay attention to you that when you finally started talking, you had nothing to say?
    By planning out your initial conversation, and rehearsing a couple of things that you can say, you will remove the stress related to the first conversation. There’s no faster way to end a meeting opportunity than to have uncomfortable silences and awkward moments.
    Planning will help you avoid stammering, stuttering, and drawing a blank. Avoid obsessing about what she is thinking because it will only create feelings of self-doubt.
    In this section, you will learn about how to plan your conversation, what to say when you first approach a woman you like, and how to use conversation generating questions to keep a conversation going. We will also cover the essentials in body language, both reading hers and paying attention to what your body language is saying about you.
    If you have had your eye on someone that you would like to get to know a little better, you are at an advantage because you know you will see them again. For example, is the woman you find attractive from your gym, work, or at the local coffee shop? If so, then you know where to go to see her. This is the best situation for pre-planning an encounter.
    The goal here is to have enough things to talk about that you are comfortable in starting and sustaining a conversation. You don’t want to be running off at the mouth if it is not natural in the conversation. And you don’t want to be talking so much that you are not listening to what she has to say either. Listening is a good quality that women find attractive.
    Once you’ve made up your mind to approach her, and you’ve put some thought into what you will say, put yourself in a situation where you will see her and just do it. Don’t wait or procrastinate, because then you might start having negative thoughts and talk yourself out of it unnecessarily.

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